In order to be successful in life, you must have  a” definite chief  aim” in life. Your decision has to be definite and you then must take action to obtain this purpose by self study,  through higher education or through personal training.  It has to be something that you have a burning desire for, feel good about, have a passion for, have a high aptitude for, plus have a strong belief and faith in your self that you can obtain it. Some of the things you may want to achieve could be developing a great dynamic physique that you can be proud of, becoming a top notch personal trainer, becoming a top notch real estate broker, or a top notch attorney.  Also, you then have to follow through with persistence until your ”definite chief aim” in life becomes a reality!

Learning how to develop “Unstoppable Self-Confidence” is a very important element in the success formula because it demands respect and gives you a good self-image.  To develop unstoppable self-confidence, first motion equals emotion. Stand up head looking up, smile, eyes looking forward and breathe like you are already self-confident. (By doing weight resistance training, it will help you to become more self-confidence,  because your posture will be better, thus you will carry your self  better.) 

Next visualize in you mind a time when you achieved some outstanding event. For example: when you scored a touch down playing football, when you closed a huge real estate sale, or when you graduated from college and got your law degree.  Say to your, I really did this, it was me!  Another thing you can do to help build self-confidence is to read books on great people in history, such as Abraham Lincoln or Andrew Carnegie.  Also, to help become a leader and to start believing in your self, it takes initiative to take action and have faith you can get respect to lead others.

Neo-Linguistic Conditioning is a great tool to eliminate limiting beliefs and non-resourceful emotions.  You first have to utilize leverage.  You must  make that change, be ready to make a change and believe you can make that change.  For example, if you believe that you are you  not very strong physically or borne to be poor and feel inferior, you can make that change.  IF you do not change those beliefs, you  may still feel inferior, have loss of money, loss of friendships and not have a quality life style.  Secondly, You have to interrupt that pattern to eliminate those limiting belief.  (Just like scratching a phonograph record, so that it can not play that same way again). You could interrupt the pattern, by saying something to someone like STAND  UP, OR WOULD YOU EAT A DOZEN GRASS HOPPERS FOR A MILLION DOLLARS?  After you have interrupted  the old pattern, install a new more empowering belief such as you can become stronger and develop a great physique, through weight resistant exercisers, cardiovascular exercises and the proper nutrition. You have as much money as you need, as long as you are resourceful. Last but not least, condition your self with this new belief  by thinking all the pleasure you will have by looking better and feeling better by having a great physique and an abundance of money. You can also, change your emotional  state from  depression to motivation and drive by using neo-linguistic conditioning too.

In both your professional life and life in general goal setting is very important.   First when setting a goal, such as developing a great dynamic physique, an increase in your income, buying a new home or buying a luxury car, you have to set a goal that is obtainable within your capability.  Secondly, you have to develop a strong belief with a burning desire and have faith that you will obtain that goal. Thirdly, you have to not only believe and have faith that you will obtain it, but you have to visualize in your mind  that you already have that thing that you desire in your  possession.  Fourthly,  have to picture the thing that you desire in your mind and see your-self enjoying it. Also, you have to see your- self feeling really good, as if you already have received it.